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In their words
Stories from people who have walked with Rae: in 1-on-1 sessions, in her programs, and through her writing.
A story · Rebirthed & Rooted, then 1-on-1
“This isn’t flashy healing.”

Pam
Rebirthed & Rooted participant 2022–2023
When I found Rachel's work, I wasn't looking for healing. Not in the traditional sense. My life was okay. I wasn't in breakdown or searching for therapy. But reading the description of the Rooted (Rebirthed & Rooted) program stirred in me a longing for a space where the pieces I'd been gathering in different spaces could be woven together. I had been sitting with land. Working at connections with my ancestors. Tending to spiritual practice and embodiment. When I read the pillars of Rooted - soul, body, land, sex, lineage, and spirit - I remember thinking, this is all of it. This is the integration I've been waiting for. So I said yes. And something began to open.
What surprised me was how quickly Rooted brought long-buried pain to the surface –not in a way that overwhelmed me, but in a way that made sense. The blueprint and soul seed work from the beginning of the program cracked something open in me at a deeper, more embodied level than I had experienced in previous counseling experiences.: What if I had been truly seen? Truly nurtured? It stirred grief I didn't know I was still holding. Grief that had been compartmentalized and tucked away. But Rachel held that grief with such steadiness, such reverence, that I never felt lost in it. This wasn't work that ripped lids off old wounds. It was work that invited me to lift the veils when I was ready. And so I kept going.
After Rooted, I stepped into 1-on-1 sessions with Rachel – not because I was in a mental health crisis, but because I wanted to keep healing. I wanted to stay with what had been stirred. What I found in our sessions was a skilled sacred companionship. Rachel brings a calm, regulated presence that makes you feel immediately grounded. At the beginning of every session, she asks, Do you want to do some stabilizing? And that alone reminded me there was always stable ground to return to, and developed my own practice of tending to my own needs for grounded stability.
The shifts didn't feel dramatic. They felt real. Gentle. Gradual, but also tectonic. I used to think I loved myself. I had already done work, both in and out of counseling, to move past the self-hatred I had inherited. Working with Rachel, I came to realize that there were still parts of myself that I judged, pushed away, tried to fix. Through this work, I've come to companion those parts instead. The self-critical voice doesn't disappear, but it no longer hijacks me. I've begun to stay on my own side in relationships. I've let go of situations that weren't meeting my needs without drowning in shame or blame. I've softened toward myself.
And maybe most importantly, I've stopped going AWOL on my own heart.
I'm learning how to stay with myself no matter what I'm feeling or what parts of me are showing up. Rachel doesn't just believe in your blueprint—she embodies that belief. She creates a space grounded in a deep belief in your wholeness, and it's impossible not to feel that in her presence. Her pace is slow, yes. But that slowness is what makes the transformation stick. Like tending a garden, she helps prepare the soil, seed the ground, and trust that something will bloom in its own time.
I've done more integration between sessions with Rachel than I've done in any other therapeutic or coaching relationship. Her tools, symbols, and mantras stay with me. Her voice echoes in my journaling. Even when I think, Oh, I should work on this in my next session with Rachel, I often end up moving through it on my own before then. That's the kind of support she offers—not dependency, but deepening self-trust.
People may ask if it's worth the cost. And as someone who is extremely mindful about money, I'll say this: I've never once regretted what I've paid to work with Rachel. She's the most impactful space holder I've ever worked with—therapist, coach, or otherwise. If you're feeling the pull… trust it. This isn't flashy healing. It's powerful, whole-making, blueprint-remembering work. And it has ripple effects throughout your life.
1-on-1 sessions
“It’s crazy to think that just 5-6 months ago the idea of feeling safe in my body felt like a foreign concept because it feels so embodied now!
Read Laura’s story +
Working with Rachel has been an interesting and transformational experience, and I mean that in the best of ways! I came into this work hoping to deepen my relationship with myself, my sexuality and sexual expression. Cognitively I felt ready to do this but my body was incredibly resistant. Rachel sensed that from the beginning and made sure I knew that if safety within my body was the "only" thing achieved during our work together that it would be successful! Admittedly, I did not love that answer, but decided to trust it! Rachel did a great job of tailoring my treatment to me and intuitively picked up on where I needed to focus my attention each session. I had to put the idea of connecting to my sexuality/sexual expression by the wayside which I was bummed about, but I agreed with Rachel that focusing on safety had to happen. And slowly but surely, it did! It's crazy to think that just 5-6 months ago the idea of feeling safe in my body felt like a foreign concept because it feels so embodied now! And though I still have a way to go, without even realizing it, the creation of safety allowed for my body to connect to sexual expression and desire without any direct attention paid to it—kinda like a side benefit of safety! I feel grateful for the work that Rachel and I have done together. I am hopeful to continue working with her in the future and would highly recommend her to anyone!
Laura A. · Nashville, TN · 1-on-1 client
“I used to try and work harder to achieve healing, and Rae showed me that it gets to be gentle.
Read Taryn’s story +
I have so many amazing things to say about this woman. I am so grateful for her. As someone that has been doing the work and in this world for over a decade, Rae took my healing to an even deeper level. I used to try and work harder to achieve healing, and Rae showed me that it gets to be gentle and that I can build my capacity and self trust in the process. She holds the most incredible space and has such a gift of reflecting your process back to you, and explaining it in a way that makes sense. I have learned so much, including how important it is to validate my feelings, how trauma responses play out in my body and in my life, and tools to continue using as I navigate intensity in the world and life experiences. Rae is one of the best practitioners in the trauma industry and this type of support is unlike anything I have received in other therapy + coaching containers. If you are considering working with her-- DO IT! What you learn will benefit all areas of your life, for the rest of your life.
Taryn Weil · Life + Business Coach for Creatives and Entrepreneurs · 1-on-1 client
“Rachel has the unique gift to hold space for the soul to show up.
When receiving coaching from Rachel, she opened and held space for a deep soul journey. She was always curious and open for the healing journey to unfold. The core intention for my coaching process came to me in our first session. The words were surprising and very clear, but I couldn't imagine where they would lead me. Eventually I could see how the intention was so perfectly aligned with my soul's purpose! Rachel has the unique gift to hold space for the soul to show up.
Isabel Myriam · 1-on-1 coaching, Jade Egg Intensive and Pussy Church
“Rachel is teaching me how to be rescued through my relationship with myself.
Read Natasha’s story +
Mind blown. Before working with Rachel, I didn’t believe that I would ever be able to move beyond some of the stuck, painful moments that I have been carrying in my body for decades. I can now confidently say that I fully believe healing is possible for me, and that I have been given the skills and resources to personally take these steps.
Being a therapist myself, I initially came into sessions with Rae quite skeptical, but it only took a couple of interactions to realize that this practitioner is a VERY rare gem. Rae’s medicine is a true gift to the earth, and more specifically, to today’s struggling society. Her capacity to hold space and intuitively facilitate is inspiring and I am so glad that I found her because she has taken my personal work to the next level.
If you are considering working with Rae - whether individually or in one of her programs - I urge you to do it. Not only does Rae have a wealth of knowledge and wisdom (thanks to her extensive training and commitment to personal work), but she practices from a place of groundedness and intuition that far exceeds that of most other practitioners.
Other practitioners have taught me how to be rescued through my relationship with them. Rachel is teaching me how to be rescued through my relationship with myself. And that, that is worth more than anything.
Natasha Files · Therapist, Vancouver, Canada · 1-on-1 client
“I feel a renewed sense of excitement, ease, and aliveness.
Read the full words +
Before working with Rae I struggled with shame, shyness, and being seen in my sexuality with others, often I didn't feel fully comfortable to express or receive pleasure, especially after an unhealthy relationship and traumatic breakup. This manifested physically in discomfort, pain, and numbness. Since working with Rae, I have felt an opening that allows me to connect so much deeper with others sexually and with my own pleasure. I feel a renewed sense of excitement, ease, and aliveness. In our sessions, Rae held a strong container that was so clearly informed by years of training, self practice, and commitment to healing work. I'd recommend this work to people who have experienced trauma that may be holding them back from fully experiencing pleasure and embodiment. She taught me practices and techniques that I still use regularly to center back into worthiness and self love. I'm so grateful to Rae for our time together!
I. Free · Portland, OR · 1-on-1 client
“Prior to the program, my understanding was mostly at the intellectual level. During the program, it became embodied.
Read Taryn’s story +
When I signed up for Rooted I was looking to deepen my understanding and experiencing of somatic trauma resolution. This felt important to do for my own healing and for my work with clients. This course impacted me profoundly from the beginning and was appropriately titled Rooted + Rebirthed. Rachel is an expert in the field and her teaching of the material is comprehensive and digestible. I was able to understand myself and my life experiences in a way I hadn't before. Prior to the program, my understanding was mostly at the intellectual level. During the program, it became embodied. I went through a deep transformation (which included discomfort) but it allowed me to step into a more authentic, whole, grounded, version of myself. I began to show up differently in all aspects of my life, especially relationships. It shifted family, friend, life, and business dynamics. This course felt like a graduate level course in trauma. It not only facilitated my own personal transformation but equipped me with tools for supporting clients in their healing journeys. Rachel and the community of participants provided powerful support as I navigated some of the most difficult challenges of my life. Post Rooted, my nervous system feels more grounded, regulated, and secure. Life continues to happen and I find myself less taken and shaken with what occurs around me. I have rebuilt parts of my life with a sense of self authority and self trust that I did not have before. I am living a life that feels authentic and aligned to me. If you are curious about this program, trust that part of you and sign up. If you value community, learning, growth, and compassionate support, this is a potent container. If you want to show up as a better human, friend, coach, educator, or healer— this is for you. It's been verrrrryyyy impactful and has truly changed my life.
Taryn Weil · Rooted participant
“My life before Rooted was full of doubt, anxiety and scarcity and my life now is … rooted!
Read Willow’s story +
There are few things I can recommend as wholeheartedly as Rooted. Nearly three years after our container, the seeds we planted are growing and flourishing in a garden of reconnection to my ancestors, creativity with my artwork, and communion with the earth and my body. Many times over the years since the program I have reflected on the moment after my exploration call when I was contemplating the course but hesitating because of cost. Inherited scarcity of resource of all kinds was one of the central things that drew me to the work of Rooted and it is truly some of the best money I have ever spent. During our pillar of Soul, a series of watercolors was born through me that I have since polished into a form to share and the medicine of the messages I received is now touching my loved ones in the form of my artwork. I believe connecting to our ancestry and who we were before colonialism (and still are) is an essential ingredient in anti racist work on Turtle Island. I have yet to find another space quite like the one Rae creates that allows for all of us to show up with an invitation into our deepest truth and healing with a trauma informed, spiritual, emerging and accepting love. Before Rooted I was longing for stability within. Despite all external attempts to build a foundation, my inner world would still tremble with change. My life before Rooted was full of doubt, anxiety and scarcity and my life now is … rooted! I can honestly say that since Rooted, a steady force has strengthened within me. Over the course of Rooted, I stopped "shoulding" myself and relaxed into my body and spirit in a way I wasn't able to before. While it sounds simple, it was the kind of work that needed to happen in a container of community. I now have a sense of being at home in myself wherever I am and have a strengthened communication to earth, body, ancestors, soul, and spirit. If you hear the call to join Rooted I encourage you to accept. I believe this medicine is what our world needs.
Willow Brooke · Rooted 2019–2020
“It was a transformation portal and I came out feeling much more me.
Read Brooke’s story +
I am so grateful that I was able to be a part of the Rooted container. When it started I had recently gotten married and was looking to start a family (I became pregnant a month into the program). I was also longing to locate myself within "the family of things." I had a general idea of my lineage, but I never really thought to go deeper. I had always felt there was something missing from the conversation about race that white people were having. When Rae helped us understand that part of what allows white supremacy to flourish is our disconnection from our ethnic roots, a light bulb went on for me. With no connection to our heritage, white supremacy fills that vacuum. Rooted helped to offer another path into true identity. Rae has such a gift for holding and creating space. Even though we were virtual, the atmosphere and ambiance of our meetings mattered. She cultivated her physical space and encouraged us to do the same. It truly enriched the practice. Rae also guided us with wise questions and intense breathing practices and visualizations. Gently pushing us to dig into ourselves and the container. It feels like Rooted illuminated so much of what was already inside me. Rae helped lead me into the depths of my psyche to meet parts of myself I'd all but forgotten. And all the while holding and supporting us with such care and knowledge. The process always felt safe, even if it also felt scary at times. I found a boldness within myself while doing Rooted. An unabashed, unafraid, unedited version of myself that was longing to make some noise and break stuff. And then make the broken new again. Rooted truly changed my life for the better. It was a transformation portal and I came out feeling much more me. I felt untethered to the ideas the world had for who I ought to be and intune with my divine being. I am so grateful to Rae for offering such a blessing.
Brooke Oyana · Rooted 2019–2020
“This is a ‘how do I meet this?’ space—not a ‘how do I fix this?’ space.
I really learned how to approach myself with validation and care, rather than always feeling like I was a problem to fix.
Brit
“I used to do container after container chasing change. This actually helped me stabilize.
I didn't have to do any super-heroic, performative healing work. That was surprising.Most containers focus on getting quick results. Rachel's container helped me root into myself.
Lan
“ReBirthed + Rooted wasn't about urgent fixing.
You offered a long-game approach that still led to real, tangible transformation.
Pam · Rebirthed & Rooted 2022–2023
Erotic Reclamation
Words from earlier rounds of Slow Burn [now Erotic Reclamation].
“It normalized my experiences and dissolved the heavy burden of feeling “broken.”
Read Julia’s story +
I'm Julia, an artist, astrologer, and maker hailing from Portland, Oregon. When I first stumbled upon the Erotic Embodiment program (which has now evolved into Slow Burn [now Erotic Reclamation]), I have to admit, I was a bit worn out. I'd dabbled in various courses and approaches to healing my sexuality, but I often found myself entangled in a web of self-criticism, comparison, and unrealistic expectations. The burnout was real, and I was hesitant about signing up for yet another course that might inadvertently trigger those patterns all over again. However, what stood out to me was the program's focus on embracing wherever you are in your journey. This resonated deeply with me because it was a departure from the usual "one-size-fits-all" approach I had encountered elsewhere. The container felt safe, and it acknowledged that burnout or hesitation were also valid starting points. As I delved into the program, I found something truly transformative. It wasn't just about chasing after some abstract notion of sexual pleasure or fitting into a predefined mold. Instead, it was about meeting myself where I was and giving myself permission to explore and honor my own unique pacing. One of the most impactful aspects was the emphasis on understanding my own nervous system. The course provided insights into the physiological responses that occur during trauma triggers, especially in the realm of sexuality. This information was a game-changer for me. It normalized my experiences and dissolved the heavy burden of feeling "broken." Instead, I learned to embrace my own pace and process, and it was a breath of fresh air. A significant shift was the newfound ability to advocate for my own pacing within my relationships. The program fostered a sense of intimacy and communication that had been lacking before. Instead of suppressing or hiding my experiences, I learned to share and connect with my partners on a deeper level. This led to more satisfying and intimate experiences, not as a result of a checklist, but as a genuine connection to my authentic self. The beauty of Slow burn lies in its commitment to authenticity and integration. It's not a rush toward a goal, but a journey of discovery and acceptance. The program's fusion of deep nervous system insights and mystical elements created a unique space where magic and science coexist harmoniously. If you resonate with the idea of embracing your own pace, meeting yourself where you are, and exploring the depths of your authenticity, then Slow Burn is an experience you'll treasure. Whether you're feeling burnt out, seeking healing, or simply curious about a holistic and integrative approach to sexuality, I wholeheartedly recommend this transformative journey.
Julia · Slow Burn participant [now Erotic Reclamation]
“The permission to show up as needed and say no was incredibly validating and empowering.
Slow Burn [now Erotic Reclamation] (formerly called Erotic Embodiment) is an informative, supportive, and empowering container that has made a big difference in my life. The permission to show up as needed and say no was incredibly validating and empowering. I've used these skills in my day-to-day life and they have made a big difference in my ability to cope with stress and difficult emotions. I also learned a lot about resourcing, which is a powerful tool for bringing myself back to the present moment. I loved having an accountability buddy as it was nourishing and helpful for integration.
Allandra · Slow Burn participant [now Erotic Reclamation]
“Rae's perspective was really powerful, transformative and influential for me.
I found this course to be incredibly helpful and informative. I especially enjoyed the content on the nervous system and trauma responses, as well as the opportunity to share personal stories and relate to others. I really genuinely enjoyed every bit of it. I loved the resources provided, the exercises we did together, all the sharing and feedback, and reflections. Rae's perspective was really powerful, transformative and influential for me.
Jayna · Slow Burn participant [now Erotic Reclamation]
“Learning to listen to my body's responses and embracing my ‘no’ has been so empowering.
Slow Burn [now Erotic Reclamation] (previously called Erotic Embodiment) has been a true anchor during my healing journey. I loved the attuned, grounded container, guidance, knowledge, and awareness which provided a safe space for exploration. What I liked about the course was the awareness that it brought to my feelings and thoughts. And that I could go at my own pace, find the smallest doable step, and recognize that my feelings and thoughts actually make sense. Learning to listen to my body's responses and embracing my 'no' has been so empowering.
Candy · Slow Burn participant [now Erotic Reclamation]
“This experience has been pivotal in my healing journey.
Slow Burn [now Erotic Reclamation] facilitated an understanding my own experience of sexual trauma and how to move forward in my healing. Rae''s ability to simplify complex concepts on sexual trauma and nervous system dynamics helped me to understand what might be happening for me. The coaching calls were supportive and allowed me to show up in any way I wanted or needed. The focus on resourcing and integration deeply resonated with me. This experience has been pivotal in my healing journey.
Mina · Slow Burn participant [now Erotic Reclamation]
Sacred, Sexy & Whole
“This ebook is a massive game-changer for experiencing your sexuality as sacred!
If you were raised in a conservative Christian environment like me and have wondered why you feel disconnected from your sexuality and body, Sacred, Sexy & Whole provides the clarity you've been looking for. This ebook offered immense clarity around the source of my sexual guilt, shame and trauma, and gave healing modalities based in different spiritual traditions and modern science that worked!
Lacey Broussard · Birth Doula and Sex, Love & Relationship Coach for Moms
“This ebook is needed for the world. It's clear, concise and profound.
I've done so much work in these areas and yet Rachel's language really helped bring more clarity to my disconnection. Having words that parallel my experience validates and brings desire to holistically move through the remaining cultural and spiritual shame and guilt around my sexuality. Sacred, Sexy & Whole is right up there with Naomi Wolf's book Vagina, which was the starting game changer for me.
Melissa Henige · Love, Sex & Relationship Coach
“Rachel's work is like a map or guide into understanding who we are.
I went on a journey when I read Sacred, Sexy & Whole. It's gutsy, insightful and moving. As someone who works in ministry, I hear a lot about other's traumatic experiences. Rachel's discussion on trauma significantly expanded my understanding of how trauma affects people. My compassion has grown and my ears will be better listeners. I am so glad I tuned into this message.
Brooke Hillebrand · Church Ministry & Community Life Leader
Earlier offerings
From the Jade Egg Intensive and Pussy Church, programs Rae taught in earlier years.
“She is both tender and courageous, willing to “go there” in the deepest sense.
Rachel's ability to dive into her deep inner work and to share that work with a group of sisters is such a gift. She is both tender and courageous, willing to "go there" in the deepest sense and also willing to hold space for others to "go there." Her intensive touches on the fragmentation and reuniting of our sacred wholeness and our sexual power. Through this work we are welcoming ourselves in our wholeness and also connecting with others around the globe who are part of this evolution and revolution. Rachel speaks directly to many of the issues that we face individually and collectively in our sexuality, embodiment, and spirituality, so I feel there is something in this material for everyone. I am learning to find my pleasure in the deep work, and Rachel has been a facilitator in that. RAAWWR!
Dana K.S. · Jade Egg Intensive
“This may have been the most worth it of them all.
I've done different spiritual workshops, reatreats, etc. and honestly this may have been the most worth it of them all. It was the best investment!! Thank you so much for sharing this work. I'm integrating this experience and intend to keep these practices as a core part of my life and spiritual practice.
Emma A. · Jade Egg Intensive
“A silent but enormous shift.
To see the other women who had joined Pussy Church was beautiful. It opened my perspective that there are other people struggling with similar things and doing their work. What a bliss! I felt so much love for these brave and beautiful beings. I feel more being part of a global tribe of witches and priestesses who are on their heart's journey to use their sexual power for their healing, for planetary healing, for ancestral healing and for the healing of all beings on planet earth. I think this way of feeling connected to life, to healing, to a loving and caring community has become more part of my everyday life which is a silent but enormous shift.
Isabel · Pussy Church
“More hopeful about my sacred sexuality.
I had recently been learning more and seeing how sexuality and spirituality are connected, and I really wanted to learn how to connect to the more sacred and spiritual aspects of my sexuality. I'm only on week 3 at the moment, but even with just the breast massage practice I feel more connected to my body and sometimes have found it easier to orgasm and feel pleasure in my body, something I find extremely difficult if not impossible. I am very encouraged to continue connecting with the lessons offered in the course and am more hopeful about my sacred sexuality than I was before I started Pussy Church.
E.B. · Pussy Church
“Rachel truly has a gift for creating a completely safe space.
Rachel truly has a gift for creating a completely safe space for exploration of such intimate material. I was often astonished at how deep we were going, in the company of women I mostly didn't know well, and all (apparently) feeling completely safe. I also really appreciate her meticulous information (both during class and in the handouts she sent us) and the way she walked us through the practices verbally before we actually did them. That was all helpful to me. Rachel's the bomb!
Diana R. · Jade Egg Intensive
“No one ever taught me about the sacredness of my own body.
My biggest take away from this intensive was learning a new way to commune with my yoni. To see her, talk to her, listen to and interact with her. No one ever taught me about the sacredness of my own body / yoni, let alone to even think about her. I've been looking to strengthen the connection with my womb and yoni for a long time. This intensive taught me practical tools and practices to help me reconnect with this wise and sacred part of myself. My world will never be the same!
J. Sanders · Jade Egg Intensive
“Sexy can just be for me.
Before [Pussy Church] I was avoiding sex, ashamed and confused that I'm married to a man and attracted to women, and uncomfortable with my appearance. Now I'm confident with my leg hair, mostly comfortable with instigating conversations about sex with my husband, have a better understanding about what sexy is and that sexy can just be for me, less ashamed of my fantasies, more at peace with my 'trauma' and no longer (mostly) feel the need to always share or compare it when others share their trauma.
Jade P · Pussy Church
“Breath practices are key to getting in touch with our sacred selves.
Pussy Church opened me up to the possibility of experiencing sacred sexuality and combing sacred sexuality and sacred spirituality. I learned that physical movement and motion plus breath practices are key to getting in touch with our sacred selves, and I was able to touch in to this part of myself through Pussy Church.
Elizabeth P. · Pussy Church
“I feel much less shame—hardly any, actually.
Before the intensive I really felt a lack of true connection to my sensual, sexy self. After the intensive I now feel that my greatest power lies in my womb. She is the seat of ALL power! I now feel whole. The practices lined up perfectly to everything happening in my life... and all of the teachings were, "Move On. Embrace Life. Live Joyously." I feel much less shame--hardly any, actually--and much more connected to who I am as a woman and Creator of my life. Pleasure Is Good. I have the power to give myself pleasure and I don't "need" to feel guilty about it... I can ask for what I want, and for these requests to be met by my lover. This is GOOD!!!
Laura A. · Jade Egg Intensive
“It's about the power of pleasure and the happiness of being happy.
I am surprised that all of this is so simple. It's about the power of pleasure and the happiness of being happy. AND IT'S POWERFUL. I know from the past that it's not just opening the door to learning something that creates change... it's the daily practice that allows the mind to continue releasing toxic patterns and build new synapses. I hope to continue to live with this energy flowing in me and use these practices Rachel taught in my life. I thank Rachel greatly for all of this. She is offering this wisdom fully and whole heartedly and beautifully. I am certain all of us are being healed beyond what we could imagine.
Mary Green · Jade Egg Intensive
“I feel more connected to my body.
I feel more aware of myself [since doing Pussy Church]. I feel more connected to my body and I have a better relationship with trauma that I had suppressed. The breast massage [practice] was particularly powerful for me. I now feel a warm tingly energy that radiates from my heart, through my chest and into my arms. I imagine that with continued practice this energy will course throughout my whole body.
Anonymous · Pussy Church
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